Ladies I need your Help!Friend with a D***head boyfriend?

Ok so heres the situation significantly abridged, im at my whits end and i don't know where to turn.....I have a female friend who ive know really well for about 8 months now, shes probably my best friend(i know sound like a soap opera)...Her boyfriend who lives with her (3yrs and counting in her parents house mind you) is the biggest see above you have ever met, he treats her like complete $h!t and has her to tears all the time, we have had carnal relations and are always messing around (nothing serious) sometimes when hes around and he doesnt say or do anything, but continues to treat her worse and worse. I KNOW, not think that i am in love with her, and have told her and nothing has really changed, it has come up if she wasnt with him she'd be with me, and everyone we know meet says you can tell there is something there and hes an - - -hole, what do i do ive tried talking and need more advice. She is all i think about 24/7, and lately i havent been able to sleep (44 hrs staight)

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your a lesbian. get over it.

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she's obviously retarded... move on.
well d@mn. idk.
are you a guy or a girl? whichever way, confront the b@stard....
mmm sounds like this guy is taking advantage of what he has offered to him.

but u see love is blind sometimes u just don't see the faults when u in a relationship don't u wonder why some abused women sticks with that man no matter what like some love sick puppy.

u can 2things either wait for her to see the light or give her a alternative options...yes u....u need to confuse her a bit so that it can get her to start thinking...so kiss her..that will set things in motion
wow how depressing. did you try to convince her to break up with him? my advice is to sleep on it. i know it sounds rediculous but it works. If you sleep you have more time to think. another thing is to try to prove to her that he's not the one for her and she can do better than that. I dont see why shes with that guy and she doesnt either. if he did love her he wouldnt put his hands on her.
Let me abridge the situation even further.

You are attracted to a woman and you sound as if you love her. She cannot therefore be your friend, best or otherwise. If you love her, you must be together or apart, and there can be no false bridge of friendship beween the two extremes.

She has a boyfriend that, quite understandably you don't like. Let's face it, you wouldn't like him no matter who or what he was or how he treated her.

She is staying with him for a reason. You can do nothing about that. She wants to be his girlfriend, not yours, and there is nothing you do about it.

She is an adult, making her own decisions. Unless she is somehow being forced against her will to stay with the guy, you need to back off and let her figure it out. Look elsewhere. Get another girlfriend. Move on.