Is this a good idea?

I want to get to know better a girl that I just met, not even 2 weeks ago. We talk in class, send text messages, sometimes about class and sometimes not. I have invited her to the Opera, but she was "busy" with school, I do believe it because it is summer school and the class we are in now is very crammed and she is taking to and it was the middle of the week.

How does flowers to her work with a card asking her to dinner, or for that matter, even just hang out, making reference to the fact that the flowers don't mean a thing, just a gentleman giving them to a lady who he thinks deserves them?

I really wanna come off as a gentleman/sweet guy, I truly am, and NO I don't just wanna get laid, so help me out!

I think for the most part I can handle everything, Ive got the balls, just wanna make sure I dont blow it! (which I know I wont ;))

Constructive criticism would be helpful, dos? donts?

Let me know!

Is this a good idea?state theatre

I think that you have some great ideas already. You will truely get your point across that this girl is someone who you believe to be special. One thing though, the flowers (even with a card just asking her out) will put her on the spot to answer your question with a "yes", a "no" answer would more than likely not be given to you due to her guilt of you already going so far out of your way to impress her. Also, flowers at work could get sticky. I know that at my job if someone gets flowers everyone wants to know who they are from and all the details (agian, maybe more pressure than she is expecting to not even be dating you at the time). I guess that the point of coming off to strong would be obvious even if she was appreciative. Maybe once you get a date just by asking bringing her flowers would be appropriate. This way there is no obligation before hand, she will be with you because she wants to, not out of sympathy.

Is this a good idea?theater opera theater

its a good idea, but you sound a little full of yourself