I've made a mistake, when I married the brother, because of the man I truely love. What do I do

Over two years ago I met my soul mate at church and we have been together ever since then, we see each other each and eveyday there is not a day that goes by that we do not lay eyes on one another. However, he is a very religous guy. And he always say that he loves me and will always love me, but God has told him that we are not meant to married to one another. So, to always have me in his life he suggested that I date his brother which has lead to marriage and now I am like, How did I get here? Sounds like a soap opera I know. Needless to say, I married his brother even though his brother is a very sweet, loving, kind and he loves me unconditionally. I still can not and do not think I will ever get over the deep rooted love that I have for this man ever. As I said he is my soul mate, bestfriend, the love of my life I am truely in love with him. And don't get me wrong I do love his brother but not the way that I do for him. Just at a point that I don't know what to do. Torn, torn!

I've made a mistake, when I married the brother, because of the man I truely love. What do I do?performing art center

I'm so sorry that you are in such a situation and you cannot be with your soulmate. But since you got married , I think you could try your best to make the marriage work and be happy . Your soulmate is always there for you as a friend ...

I've made a mistake, when I married the brother, because of the man I truely love. What do I do?theatre tickets opera theater

lt is far to late to be torn.l would not have married either.But you have made your bed...........now you must lie in it.

Still....l feel for you..
what some ice for that BURN?

damn, thats a hard situation. I have no idea, but I feel for you. God has a plan for his life, and you're obviously not the wife in it.
dont u think u went a little far - jus 2 get 2 a guy u cant ave

but uve married the guy now an if u break up wit him it sounds liek url break his heart
Stop tormenting yourself. Control yourself. Love your husband as you have promised. You are not powerless to do the right thing.
If you are torn then your word is of little value. How can you make vows to one man but, are madly in love with his brother? The guy wants you in his life everyday but, he doesn't want to marry you? Wouldn't it be simplier for him to apply for a postal job and just deliver your mail so you two can see each other?
Hi Shay

Please,please don't take offense to this, but the truth is your are stupid and you are trapped in more ways than one, I will explain.

You were stupid for listening to this so called religious soul mate of yours, for all you know he just wanted you to marry his brother, anyway you should not have listened to him. You and he being in love, yet he allowing or suggesting you marry his brother so the two of you can be together was wrong and for his brother that was selfish and wrong for both of you.

Thou shall not covet the neighbors wife. thou shall not commit adultery. These commandments come to mind, Him just loving someone else wife with all his heart is a sin, both covet and adultery. You are both committing these sins being married to someone else just to be close to each other, wrong, and he is supposed to be religious? I don't think so, he is going to listen to God about you not marrying each other, but he is going to for go the ten commandments?

All three of you are going to need to talk about this, your eternal salvation is a stake. you will be better off leaving both of them easier said then done I know, but think about what is going on, it is not fare to your husband. I am sad for you....

Good luck to you and them Shay I hope it all works out for you in the best possible way.

Take care and God bless.....Keep the Faith....PEACE....cya....