Friday, December 4, 2009

I have just joined an Internet dating website, now I must admit I did lie a little on the applicatio

said I had an athletic build, I said I liked Opera and theatre and I said I am a manager of my own company, I am actually on Incapacity benefit.



Doesnt everyone lie on these things? Besides I want a quality bird, not some council estate chav.



So me question is, when someone replies to me ad, when should I tell them the truth? Should I meet them then explain to them why I lied? I think personally that is the best option.



Also where is the best place for us to meet? I was thinking at the cinema. I want to see the new Simpsons film and I was thinking if she is nice and she realises I am on benefits she will pay.



I know I shouldnt have lied but no one would have replied if I had told them the truth, I mean you all make fun of my photo.



I have just joined an Internet dating website, now I must admit I did lie a little on the application form I?opera house



Umm, she probably lied too. She's probably not going to be all that she's said.



I have just joined an Internet dating website, now I must admit I did lie a little on the application form I?dream theater opera theater



that avatar made me lose my appetite... You kinda look like Michael Moore (I hate his movies)
Better hide. The moron brigade are out in force today. ;-)
What about your weight? If that is you on the picture, then I dunno.
yeah everyone lies, you will be fkin models in no time. go for it crispy!!
you must use your male powers of charm in many many emails make them fall in love with you before you meet them then they will be powerless to resist you



regards x Kitti x
well someone might be looking for someone who likes opera, and has their own company. lying leads to nowhere! if you really want a relationship take control of your life so that you don't have to lie! plus i believe that there is someone for everyone and you won't find her if you lie about who you are.
uhm.. i dont think its good to lie to start a relationship cause it only ends up worst and you'll never find the right person. just be honest someone in the world will be yours someday
Lies beget lies. Mend your application and honestly start afresh.
I think you need to worry more about getting healthy than having a gf
DON'T rely on what any people say on these sites, they could have lied to you too, you have to tell the truth before meeting them, this could compel them to tell you the truth too. remember how easy it was for you to lie, it is just as easy for others. So be careful.



good luck.
lies always come back to hit you where it most hurts
erm...... hu dun lie in dating websites??
Hi,



Lying gets you no where. You best to be honest with people because that way they get to know you and feel they can trust you.



Lying about things on the ad is normal but you have actually made up a whole new persona to who you are and that is a risky game to play because it will make others unsure about trusting you and you may come across a little freaky.



Going to cinema for first date is never a good idea as it does not give you chance to talk to the woman face to face and let her see the real you and for you to get to know her either.



You should want a woman for company and that - not that she can lavish you with things. If it a sugar mommy you want then you doing the wrong thing because no woman or man wants to have to pay for their other half all the time - women like to be treated and pampered now and again, regardless if they have their own pay!



You say others take fun of your size and if they do then that harsh but you obviously find it a problem as well as you lying about your build on the add and worrying too much about meeting a woman and can't feel you can be honest about it.



If it worrying you so much - get down to the gym - they don't cost too much - some you can just pay each time you go, so you don't need a membership but if you want to lose weight then you need to do the first step and get exercising and healthy eating.



Don't feel you going to be the fattest guy at gym - you there to lose the weight and get healthy. If you got a dog take it for a longer walk, if you use public transport, get off 3 stops before and walk rest of way ect.



You won't meet a woman until you feel comfortable in your own skin and don't feel you need to lie about it.



By way if you feel confident enough to add your pic on here why feel the need to lie on a dating website - it baffles me a little!



Good luck!



Lx
You look pretty athletic to me!



Anyway - don't lie!



If you lie from the start you can only build upon those lies and you will never be trusted!



Some ladies like the "fuller"man!
I am totally on your side that you lied to get these girls attention and these girls do ask for too much. So here first thing never lie. now that you have lied, best will be after impressing the person online or over the phone tell her that you lied about some stuff. Don't go to cinema on your first date, go to a dinner or coffee shop but YOU PAY not her. But you have to tell her the truth before meeting her or else you would be sitting on that table of the coffee shop or restaurant eating all alone. I wish you best of luck
kinda think u deserve what u get tbh. You dont want a " council estate chav" - well I live on an estate and I am so far out of your league you should not judge a book by its cover and what makes you think you gonna live happily ever after when you have started from the beginning with a lie. A "quality" bird will not want a lier, and a sponger - u just need to get yourself a life lol lol lol
Lol. Crispy, I LOVE YOU MAN!! Why can't anyone else appreciate this kind of thing???? Rock on brother!!
Crispy why did you stand me up on our date to the cinema the other night- is it because you were meeting one of these other women off this internet dating sight thing youre banging on about?! Why didnt you just tell me, you know Id be up for a 3some x
if you think you need to lie to get a date then she's most likely not going to understand why she's meeting you when she thought she was meeting this other person you put on the site. people make fun of your photo because they are still in that high school mind set. they have never truly grown up and they feel they need to pick on other people to make themselves feel better. believe me i know i work in an office of 10-15 women and every day it's like highschool all over again. so what i'm trying to say is maybe you should tell the truth, open a new profile with the real you and see what happens.... you maybe surprised and find a really nice woman that likes you for you, not the man you made up.

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